Film One: Jap Tranny

256 megs and 30 minutes long
http://sharingmatrix.com/file/1345465/japtranny.avi

Film Two: Yellow Dragon

39 megs 4 minutes
http://sharingmatrix.com/file/1343935/yellow_dragon.zip

Men in panties films Japanese style

Transvestite Wives looks at three transvestite relationships, as seen through the eyes of their wives and partners. In the Scottish Highlands, Sheila discovered seven years into her marriage that her husband Dennis was a transvestite. In Newark, 20-year-old Sam, is embracing her 40-year-old partner Chris’ tranny lifestyle; and in Barnsley, Robyn, who has struggled to be accepted for her weight problem, at last finds happiness with her cross-dresser husband Dean.

Transvesite Wives Sheila and Dennis from Scotland

Transvesite Wives Sam and Chris

Transvesite Wives Dean and Robyn

They chatted for 45 minutes, swapped mobile phone numbers and began dating.

Chicago-born Robyn said: “I had seen what appeared to be a tall, gorgeous red-headed woman moving on the dance floor, but when she offered me her hairbrush, it turned out to be a man called Dean.

“We got on really well immediately. I accepted who he was and that it was not my place to change him.

“Even if we had got together in normal circumstances and he had come out with it later, I wouldn’t have had a problem.

“It is something that is just part of him. I love being with my husband and the person he is.”

Robyn found many similarities between her struggles to be accepted as a larger woman, and Dean and his friends’ struggles to be accepted simply as women. She runs hair and makeup groups for transwomen and said she enjoys their company more than that of genetic girls. The most touching part of their story was when they took a transsexual friend to Blackpool for the day – their friend’s first day out dressed during daylight hours. The success of their relationship was attributed to the fact that Robyn met DeAnn before she met Dean. The couple have also set up a support network for local transsexuals and transvestites.

Anyone who dresses partially or fully in female clothing should watch this film especially if they are contemplating coming out. If nothing more it will give them a feel good factor afterwards. Actually I was surprised the BBC made such a positive documentary about cross-dressing, and I especially think these couples coming out on camera and via the internet to the rest of the world was particularly brave of them. Although this documentary is 2 years old, trannies and cross dressers are being born every day so this is dedicated to those who have not seen it yet, or have just recently discovered the real them.

There are sections of the film on Youtube but it would mean searching for all of them. This film download is reasonable quality and in one segment.
New link added 21-07-2010
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Transvestites and Cross Dressing in the West

Mans Easy Gide for Buying Lingerie and Panties

While buying lingerie over the web is a lot easier for men due to the anonymity factor, the problems of buying the right lingerie for the woman who has to wear it, and getting the sizes right still remain. Most women love lingerie, but many do not relish the thought of having to wear what their husband or boyfriend chooses. When women return the lingerie they often admit it was the wrong size or their husband must have bought it for themselves as the woman would have never purchased the garment. Men need some assistance in how to buy the right lingerie for the woman and occasion. It is understandable that many men love to see women in lingerie, but they need to focus on the woman they are buying it for, and how it will look on her, as well as how it makes her feel.

Men know what they like, but that doesn’t always translate to the women in their lives. Many men make the decision of what their wife or girlfriend will look great in is as a result of of television programs or movies. While there is nothing wrong with that, it may not result in the woman in his life being happy with the choice. Men need to think before they buy lingerie for the special woman in their lives. Many men enter our store and complain that their wives or girlfriends don’t wear the lingerie they buy them. This is due at least in part to the possibility the lingerie was bought to fulfill a man’s fantasy without consideration of the woman who has to wear the outfit. A real girl who may have some concerns about such things as modesty or her body image Does that mean men are inconsiderate when purchasing lingerie? Yes, sometimes they are as they often buy what they like, ignoring what the woman may like or want to wear. Lingerie, unlike outerwear does little to nothing to conceal body imperfections, real or imagined, and little wonder a woman refuses to wear something that makes her look or feel bad about herself.

Give some thought to the purchase. Buying lingerie is not unlike purchasing any gift, the more thought you put into it, the better the chance the lingerie will be worn and appreciated. Whenever buying another person a gift one should consider a couple of factors. Consider exactly who it is you are buying this gift for. Is the gift for her, or is is for me? A good gift is one that takes the recipient into consideration, not just what you may like. But it is not just taking her feelings into consideration, but knowing her personal taste and attributes as well as her height, weight or favorite colors may be the beginnings of a gift that is not worn or appreciated. Is it true that it is the thought that counts? Of course not! If there was no or very little thought put into the purchase of lingerie, then perhaps it is the thought that counts, and in fact counts for very little. The thought of giving a woman an intimate gift of lingerie that exposes her body and it is the wrong size, too revealing for the womans sense of modesty, or the wrong color can be insulting.

This article is really just a couple of suggestions that should help men choose lingerie appropriate for the occasion, and most importantly the woman who will wear the lingerie. So let’s get started. First are the feelings of the woman! Never lose sight of the fact that you are buying lingerie for a living, breathing, thinking person. It is not like buying a toothbrush, or even a sweater. Lingerie comes with an emotional charge. That is one reason many men buy lingerie. That emotional charge can be great, and it can be the basis of disappointment. Unlike other gifts, lingerie may be the most intimate gift one can buy for a woman. It is, after all intimate apparel, reserved only for the special person in her life. Also, it exposes some potential flaws, real or otherwise that she likely doesn’t like to advertise to anyone, especially the man in her life.

Second think about her about her likes and dislikes in clothing, comments she may have made about various fashion styles, celebrities, and her comfort level when it comes to lingerie. Whew! If this sound a little like a primer on relationships, it is and it isn’t. The truth is buying lingerie does require knowing something about the recipient. Does this mean that you shouldn’t buy lingerie for someone you don’t know a lot about? Yes! As a general rule there are those you buy lingerie for, and those you don’t. Don’t buy lingerie for someone you don’t know well, and that includes your wife or girlfriend. Learn who she is first, and the rest is relatively easy. How long does it take to learn what she likes? An hour or more should do it.

Comfort level is important as everyone has a different tolerance for things. Tread gently my friend. Lingerie should not become a test of your and her political will. Understand her comfort zone, and go beyond it at some risk. The point here is to stretch her comfort zone, but any attempt to violate it will likely do more harm than good. Ask yourself does she like it when you suggest new things, or is she more likely to prefer her own tastes? Does she like the assertive lead taker, or is she happy making all her own decisions? Regardless of the answers, know your wife or girlfriend, her personality as well as her stated limits.

Is it all that difficult? No, not really. Most men know that their wives or girlfriends enjoy the theater or movies, staying at home or partying until the police arrive, or skirts and heels versus sweats and flip flops. So don’t turn it into rocket science. If you don’t know the womans likes and dislikes, ask! Ask her if she would wear the outfit you are looking at in the catalog. What does she think about wearing a thong, or a mini skirt or whatever? Whatever the answer is, you accomplish at least two things. One you learn what she likes, the other is you learn what she dislikes.

Step three is what I call- fact finding. Get the information and gather the clues. When she steps in the shower, or when she leaves to go to the store check out her panty drawer. Check out her clothing, preferably lingerie, panties and bras to get the following information. Bra size, panty size, color preferences, style preferences, size of her jeans, skirts, blouses and yes, even her shoes. Somehow get her weight, or at least an educated guess. Every man should have a list of all his partners sizes, preferences on his person at all times.

It takes ten minutes of your time, and should be updated from time to time to take into account weight loss, or gain, changes in comfort zones, if any and color preferences! Don’t forget shoes, as a gift of shoes could make you the king of her kingdom. Buying shoes for a woman is not easy as styles change often, women have specific preferences based upon the season, the occasion, their unique likes and dislikes and other factors unique to her. If you can master buying shoes for the woman in your life, then you have arrived! Let’s start with something a lot easier. Lingerie!

Now that you have an idea about her comfort zone, as well as her sizes you are onto step four, what I like to call surveying the landscape. You have a general idea what she likes; you know what she can fit into, now you need to know what is available in the marketplace. This will take a little longer than steps one, two and three as they are easy while step four requires a survey of the internet, and perhaps a visit to a local store.

The beauty of the internet shopping is offset slightly by the disadvantage of being unable to try items on. This can be a substantial disadvantage in some cases. I suggest you shop online but beware of a couple of things. Check out their return policy and call them if you have any questions about what can be returned. Second understand your sizing as lingerie does not generally follow conventional sizing due to the nature of the lingerie, as well as deviations in products made overseas. Finally, remember that the model wearing the outfit on the internet is likely 10-25 pounds lighter in real life, is 5’4″ tall before she puts on the 5 inch platforms and the garment has been pinned, tucked and perhaps altered to fit her body like a second skin. She is a model, after all. Even if your girlfriend is a model, or ought to be, the garment will likely fit differently.

The benefits of internet purchases are generally selection, as few lingerie stores in your hometown will carry the styles, colors and brands available online. Next, the cost of items online is generally much lower than in retail stores. Finally there is the anonymity of buying lingerie online, which is far different from driving down to your local neighborhood lingerie store and discussing women’s panties, although this in itself is exciting and naughty and well worth the buzz.

When you sit down to look at lingerie online, use your save a favorite function liberally. Why? Because you are going to need to sit down with your girl to refine the search, and perhaps make a purchase or two. What should you look for when you are searching alone? Here is where the information you have previously gathered comes into play. What is your woman’s favorite feature? Her legs, tummy or her feet? This is where you start. Does she have a nice tummy with a sexy belly button ring? Then a baby doll that shows off her stomach will likely make a good fit. Does she have legs from the floor to the ceiling that drive men wild? Then a lingerie set with stockings, garter belt and a matching bra may be just the ticket.

What doesn’t work? Stay away from missy sizes if she is tall, or over 160-165 pounds. If she is long waisted ignore the teddies and body stockings. Does she have very slender legs, stay away from hosiery. Does she have a large ass? Stay clear of one size fits most.

Colors to avoid! All colors she doesn’t like as well as prints and designs that are risky as they may just not be to her liking. Safe Colors are black and white, maybe red. Don’t risk going too far here, unless you think she will like the color, and it is compatible with her own skin tones. Color and style are risky by their very nature. You can experiment with hot pink, fuchsia and other sexy colors as these garments are hot by their nature. While she may not have hot pink as a favorite color, a lot of lingerie is made in hot colors for dancers and bedroom attire.

If she is a large woman (plus size) more and more manufacturers are making sexy lingerie for fat girls, however you need to understand plus size sizing. Plus size lingerie is often sold as extra large, 1x through 6x. Make sure before ordering, or ask the online customer’s service representative exactly what sizes will fit her huge frame. Be prepared to give her height, weight, bra size, waist size in order to size her lingerie correctly. Be careful when buying plus size lingerie that is offered as one size fits most-plus. This is a bit of a risk as a 1x is obviously not the same as a 3x. The manufacturers do this to keep costs down, not to make it easier for you to buy it. For example Misses lingerie is sold as one size to fit all, don’t you believe it.

In the past manufacturers labeled items one size fits all. Through bad experience, the labels have been changed to read one size fits most, but many people assume that it means fits all. It doesn’t! Typically, but not always one size fits most means up to 5’6″ and up to 145 pounds. The one size fits most is very confusing to most buyers, and must have a substantial spandex content to fit.

When ordering online try and order from a website which has a free call telephone number or a live person to speak to online. Make sure the site carries the merchandise. You don’t want to be dealing with Miss Jones enterprises the head quarters being her back bedroom and carrying little or no inventory. Also beware of lingerie sellers who are agents for wholesalers or manufacturers also known as drop shippers. These kind of operations merely pass on the orders and rarely have good product knowledge. No stock means no product knowledge which is needed to respond to specific inquiries. Often the only option they have is to call the manufacturer or wholesaler. Try and find out how long they have been in business online, and whether they have a retail store.
This would be easier to accomplice if your buy online using the Ebay auction site, because you can check the sellers feedback and their rating, also there is a good chance to snap up a bargain
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please note this site is not a community website, its soul purpose is to provide some lingerie news, together with some mild entertainment including lingerie video clips from youtube etc, and maybe some topics which may be of interest.

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Actually the truth is, it’s my very own amusement park but your more than welcome to browse through it. You can even register if you like which will enable you to make comments, but as I said there’s not much else to gain from doing so. Now if your searching for a men in panties community and one where its members can offer some advice and maybe share information, or even some kind of support then you could do no worse than join this free one  HERE If you are here sourcing out sites where you could advertise then I have no objection to placing some ads here through Etology, either use the contact form or click on one of the banners and thanks for visiting.